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As a public service, Currid & Company provides you with links to information on protecting children from predators on the Internet. We believe that children and teens should be allowed use of the best of the  Internet for learning and studying.

We also believe that usage should be monitored. As we study products that help parents observe and control Internet use we will post them to this page.

Among those we have tested with positive results are:

http://www.im-protector.com/
http://www.contentwatch.com/

Did you know? 

bullet67 percent of preschool-age children use a computer, and 23 percent use the internet, according to a 2005 report from the National Center for Education.
 
bullet15 million children are currently using instant messaging, according to the Pew Institute.
 
bullet1 in 5 children between the ages of 10 and 17 (those surveyed) are sexually solicited or approached over the internet, in a one year period, according to a 2000 report from the Center for Missing and Exploited Children.
 
bulletThe “Perfect Victim is between the age of 11 - 14”, as defined by James McLaughlin in the Characteristics of a Fictitious Child Victim: Turning a Sex Offender’s Dreams into His Worst Nightmare.

In addition, these children:
bulletHave no or little parental involvement
bulletNo definite bedtime
bulletCan be away from home without anyone knowing where they are
bulletHas exclusive use of a computer in a private area
 
bulletUnderage females are targets of solicitation at twice the rate of underage males, according to the Crimes Against Children Research Center.
 
bulletJust read the headlines, personal web sites such as MySpace are shopping grounds for predators.  In 2005, MySpace alone had over 26.7 million visitors.

 

"...a 37-year-old man solicited a 16-year-old girl by visiting MySpace.com. The man misrepresented himself as being younger, then tracked her down. Lafayette Sheriff Lt. Craig Stansbury said the man showed up at the victim's after-school job and followed her to the parking lot, where he forced her into his car and attacked her. 'The assailant knew where she worked because she posted it on her MySpace profile,'

 “A Hughson firefighter was sentenced Thursday to a year in jail for engaging in sexual activity with a 16-year-old Lodi-area boy he met online. Camagna was arrested, and investigators soon learned that the two had met on MySpace.com, a popular Web site where friends meet up and exchange messages.”

 “A high school teacher accused of making sexual advances to a 14-year-old girl on the Internet was arrested on computer pornography charges Wednesday. William Warren Greico, 42, first approached the girl after he saw her posting on myspace.com in August.”

“Joshua Perry, 27, faces up to five years in prison after being convicted earlier this month of four charges that included sexual misconduct and furnishing alcohol to a minor. The criminal complaint resulted from a romance that began after Perry read the girl's profile on the computer service MySpace.com.”

What can a parent/guardian do? 

bulletPlace the computer in a central location in the home, not the child’s room.
 
bulletCreate House Rules for internet/computer use … time of use, access to chat areas, revealing personal information/photographs.
 
bulletLearn who your children are chatting with online.  This means taking the “do not talk with strangers” message to the digital world.
 
bulletBecome familiar with chatting and search tools used by your children.
 
bulletDefine “your” personal standard regarding your child’s privacy.
 
bulletDon’t rely solely on software to block/filter content
 
bulletLet them know it is OK (actually strongly encourage them) to inform you of anything they experience on the internet that makes them uncomfortable or threatened.
 
bulletLook for the warning signs of offender manipulation … secretive behavior, Internet History being deleted, unexplained telephone charges, hang-up calls, unexpected mail, indications that the home is under surveillance.
 
bulletKnow how to monitor Internet use
 
bulletInternet Explorer’s Content Advisor
bulletContent Watch’s – Content Protect,  NetNanny, CYBERsitter...
bulletMore resources for Internet safety

Thoughts to Consider

Your House is the Mall


Consider the thoughts of  commentator Joe Wilcox. "Few parents really understand how significant a role the Web plays in how their kids socialize. According to a Kaiser Family Foundation study, 86 percent of kids 8 to 18 report having access to an in-home computer; 35 percent have computers in their bedrooms, which may not be closely monitored by parents.

According to a December 12, 2005, Business Week story, "The MySpace Generation": "Fully 87 percent of 12-to-17-year-olds use the Internet, vs. two-thirds of adults, according to the Pew Internet & American Life Project."

Overall, kids tend to multitask, simultaneously conducting media and communications tasks, such as watching TV while using the Internet, or talking on the phone while instant messaging. It's not unusual for my 11 year-old to simultaneously IM and Webcam or IM and chat on her cell phone.

More importantly, the Internet plays a central role in how kids socialize. According to the Business Week story, "Computer use for activities such as social networking...has soared nearly threefold since 2000, to 1 hour and 22 minutes a day on average." The kids hang out as easily online as the mall, with IM being one major activity."

Public Information Pamphlets

The web offers a wide range of pamphlets to inform the public of the office's functions and responsibilities, services available, and crime prevention tips. See the following:

Protecting Our Kids - Website - Pamphlet English - Folleto en Español

Young people with unmonitored access to the Internet are exposed to a wide variety of risks, some of them life-threatening. Learn how to be vigilant in safeguarding our children’s Internet activities.

Parry Arfab -- Internet lawyer and child safety expert

http://www.wiredsafety.org/media/pr/predatorsonline.html

In a survey of 10,800 teenage girls conducted in 1998, Parry learned that 12% of the teen girls polled admitted to meeting Internet strangers’ offline. Two years later, Family PC reported that 24% of the teen girls polled and 14% of the teen boys polled were meeting Internet strangers’ offline. At a recent visit to a small community in the Midwest, three children admitted to being involved with Internet predators, one was badly tortured and raped.

Parry can tell you:

bulletWhat's the profile of an Internet child molester?
bulletHow often does this happen?
bulletWhy do the children meet stranger offline?
bulletWhat can you do to protect your children?
bulletWhat's being done to find these predators before they hurt a child?
bulletWhom do you call if you suspect someone is involved with targeting children

 

Parry Aftab is also the author of The Parent's Guide to Protecting Your Children in Cyberspace (2000, McGraw-Hill) and heads up the world's largest online safety and help group, WiredSafety.org, and its famed WiredKids.org, WiredPatrol.org and WiredCops.org programs. (Parry formerly headed up Cyberangels, whose volunteers and programs are now run under the WiredSafety family umbrella.) Contact Parry and WiredPatrol.org on any issues relating to Internet crime and abuses, safety and privacy and help. They handle child pornography tips, cyberstalking and harassment, fraud and all forms of hacking and abuse. Need help? Contact www.wiredsafety.org.

 


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