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As a public service, Currid & Company provides you
with links to information on protecting children from predators on the
Internet. We believe that children and teens should be allowed use of
the best of the Internet for learning and studying.
We also believe that usage should be monitored. As we
study products that help parents observe and control Internet use we
will post them to this page.
Among those we have tested with positive results are:
http://www.im-protector.com/
http://www.contentwatch.com/
Did you know?
| 67 percent of preschool-age
children use a computer, and 23 percent use the internet, according to
a 2005 report from the National Center for Education.
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| 15 million children are currently
using instant messaging, according to the Pew Institute.
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| 1 in 5 children between the ages
of 10 and 17 (those surveyed) are sexually solicited or approached
over the internet, in a one year period, according to a 2000 report
from the Center for Missing and Exploited Children.
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| The “Perfect Victim is between
the age of 11 - 14”, as defined by James McLaughlin in the
Characteristics of a Fictitious Child Victim: Turning a Sex Offender’s
Dreams into His Worst Nightmare.
In addition, these children:
| Have no or little parental
involvement |
| No definite bedtime |
| Can be away from home without
anyone knowing where they are |
| Has exclusive use of a computer
in a private area
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| Underage females are targets of
solicitation at twice the rate of underage males, according to the
Crimes Against Children Research Center.
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| Just read the headlines, personal
web sites such as MySpace are shopping grounds for predators. In
2005, MySpace alone had over 26.7 million visitors. |
"...a 37-year-old man solicited a 16-year-old girl by
visiting MySpace.com. The man misrepresented himself as being younger,
then tracked her down. Lafayette Sheriff Lt. Craig Stansbury said the
man showed up at the victim's after-school job and followed her to the
parking lot, where he forced her into his car and attacked her. 'The
assailant knew where she worked because she posted it on her MySpace
profile,'
“A Hughson
firefighter was sentenced Thursday to a year in jail for engaging in
sexual activity with a 16-year-old Lodi-area boy he met online. Camagna
was arrested, and investigators soon learned that the two had met on
MySpace.com, a popular Web site where friends meet up and exchange
messages.”
“A high
school teacher accused of making sexual advances to a 14-year-old girl
on the Internet was arrested on computer pornography charges Wednesday.
William Warren Greico, 42, first approached the girl after he saw her
posting on myspace.com in August.”
“Joshua Perry, 27, faces up to five years in prison after
being convicted earlier this month of four charges that included sexual
misconduct and furnishing alcohol to a minor. The criminal complaint
resulted from a romance that began after Perry read the girl's profile
on the computer service MySpace.com.”
What can a
parent/guardian do?
| Place the computer in a central
location in the home, not the child’s room.
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| Create House Rules for
internet/computer use … time of use, access to chat areas, revealing
personal information/photographs.
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| Learn who your children are
chatting with online. This means taking the “do not talk with
strangers” message to the digital world.
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| Become familiar with chatting and
search tools used by your children.
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| Define “your” personal standard
regarding your child’s privacy.
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| Don’t rely solely on software to
block/filter content
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| Let them know it is OK (actually
strongly encourage them) to inform you of anything they experience on
the internet that makes them uncomfortable or threatened.
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| Look for the warning signs of
offender manipulation … secretive behavior, Internet History being
deleted, unexplained telephone charges, hang-up calls, unexpected
mail, indications that the home is under surveillance.
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| Know how to monitor Internet use
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Thoughts to Consider
Your
House is the Mall
Consider the thoughts of commentator Joe Wilcox. "Few
parents really understand how significant a role the Web plays in how
their kids socialize. According to a
Kaiser Family Foundation study, 86 percent of kids 8 to 18 report
having access to an in-home computer; 35 percent have computers in their
bedrooms, which may not be closely monitored by parents.
According to
a December 12, 2005, Business Week story, "The
MySpace Generation": "Fully 87 percent of 12-to-17-year-olds use the
Internet, vs. two-thirds of adults, according to the Pew Internet &
American Life Project."
Overall,
kids tend to multitask, simultaneously conducting media and
communications tasks, such as watching TV while using the Internet, or
talking on the phone while instant messaging. It's not unusual for my 11
year-old to simultaneously IM and Webcam or IM and chat on her cell
phone.
More
importantly, the Internet plays a central role in how kids socialize.
According to the Business Week story,
"Computer use for activities such as
social networking...has soared nearly threefold since 2000, to 1 hour
and 22 minutes a day on average." The kids hang out as easily online as
the mall, with IM being one major activity."
Public Information Pamphlets
The web
offers a wide range of pamphlets to inform the public of the office's
functions and responsibilities, services available, and crime prevention
tips. See the following:
Protecting Our Kids -
Website
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Pamphlet English
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Folleto en Español
Young people with unmonitored access to the Internet are exposed to a
wide variety of risks, some of them life-threatening. Learn how to be
vigilant in safeguarding our children’s Internet activities.
Parry Arfab --
Internet lawyer and child safety expert
http://www.wiredsafety.org/media/pr/predatorsonline.html
In a survey of 10,800 teenage girls conducted in 1998,
Parry learned that 12% of the teen girls polled admitted to meeting
Internet strangers’ offline. Two years later, Family PC reported that
24% of the teen girls polled and 14% of the teen boys polled were
meeting Internet strangers’ offline. At a recent visit to a small
community in the Midwest, three children admitted to being involved with
Internet predators, one was badly tortured and raped.
Parry can tell you:
| What's the profile of an Internet
child molester? |
| How often does this happen?
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| Why do the children meet stranger
offline? |
| What can you do to protect your
children? |
| What's being done to find these
predators before they hurt a child? |
| Whom do you call if you suspect
someone is involved with targeting children |
Parry Aftab
is also the author of
The Parent's Guide
to Protecting Your Children in Cyberspace (2000, McGraw-Hill)
and heads up the world's largest online safety and help group,
WiredSafety.org, and its
famed
WiredKids.org,
WiredPatrol.org
and
WiredCops.org
programs. (Parry formerly headed up Cyberangels, whose volunteers and
programs are now run under the WiredSafety family umbrella.) Contact
Parry and WiredPatrol.org on any issues relating to Internet crime and
abuses, safety and privacy and help. They handle child pornography tips,
cyberstalking and harassment, fraud and all forms of hacking and abuse.
Need help? Contact
www.wiredsafety.org.
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